If you’re gay and over 21, chances are you have had your fair share of sex. Maybe you have had a ton of it. Maybe it’s been with a few partners, maybe it’s been with a few thousand, either way, at the Pure For Men Headquarters, we’ve all been wondering… Is it any good?
We only ask because, for many of us, it took quite some time and a lot of bad sex before we learned how to really do it right. So, we put our heads together (the ones above our shoulders) and came up with our top three tips to take your sex life from so-so to Yes Sir!
Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it.
We can all fall into the bad habit of assuming we don’t like something before we even try it. Whether it’s a new exotic food, a new workout routine, or a new sex kink, trying new things is the key to staying young and keeping life exciting.
Sure, you may not go from missionary only to group fisting parties overnight, and we all have our limits, but commit to keeping an open mind when it comes to your sex life. You never know where you may end up, who you might meet or what you may become keen on in the future, maybe tomorrow night!
If you don’t feel sexy, you won’t have good sex.
You may not be feeling like your sexiest self at all times. We would guess that most people are walking around battling some form of physical insecurity pretty much constantly. However, just because you are self-conscious about that 10lbs you’ve been wanting to lose, doesn’t mean your sexual partner is. If you are having sex, then you are sexually desirable, period!
You need to learn to be into your own body as much as you are into the person you are naked with. It’s the only real way you can ever truly let go, embrace and enjoy yourself.
Set the scene for great sex!
If you’re into roleplay, you need to know your character. Your rumpled bed sheets and laundry on the floor doesn’t really matter if you’re ready for action and just looking to get off and get him gone after your play. But if you’re wanting a sexual experience that leaves you gagged for days and leaves him wanting more, put a little thought into your surroundings as well. Clean up your apartment, light a Pure For Men candle or spray your favourite sexy scent.
Throw on that jock strap collecting dust in your dresser drawer because it makes your butt look great. Layer it under a stylish outfit even though those clothes are coming off right away. If you’re hoping to impress and score a second date with this mate, first in is usually best dressed and that goes for the surroundings of your playroom as well. We can guarantee you both that you will get so much more out of your sex if you put a little effort into setting the scene.
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