Mr Jake has been escorting for the past six years. The 33-year-old loves his profession and thinks it’d be better understood if people saw it as more hospitality than sex work. He tells DNA some of the secrets of the trade and what it takes to “get it up“.
What’s your favourite aspect about escorting?
Making people happy. I had this one client for 10 Saturdays in a row. Each week I had to be creative in my time with them. But over that 10 weeks we moved from a starting point of trauma, where they were timid to someone quite confident and flamboyant at the end. It felt good to assist in changing someone’s life.
What if someone falls in love?
There’s always a risk that a client might get too attached. You’ve got to be brave enough to put boundaries in place and headstrong about maintaining them. It’s a fantasy that we’re selling. If you do it well, they think it’s real, but you have to be consistent about keeping the relationship emotionally intelligent.
What’s your strongest skill when it comes to escorting?
Making people feel comfortable. From the first text message I try and put people at ease. Booking an escort can be such a nerve-wracking experience, not to mention going to a stranger’s home – the minute a client walks in, I seek to diffuse any tension and get them to relax.
What have you learned from your job?
How important it is to treat everyone equally.
What do clients generally want from you?
Everyone wants to feel good. Seventy percent of the job is mental. I always say rapport is foreplay. My job is to make someone happy. There are many ways that can be achieved. It might be sexual or maybe a client just wants someone to confide in. You’ve got to be able to adapt to their emotional needs. Laughter often plays a big part.
What’s the biggest misconception people have about being an escort?
That it’s not legal and that it’s not a business. I realised long ago if I’m going to be successful, I can’t be everything. So, I employ a small team to assist with bookkeeping, website design, and social media marketing. People are often surprised with how focused escorts can be, and how well off some are – I know many with multiple homes. People would have a better understanding of escorting if they looked at it more as a hospitality business.
What should someone look for when booking an escort?
Credentials and a good foundation of exposure, whether that be a website or a content page, but something that gives you a little more insight into the person.
What do you wish you’d known when you started that you know now?
I wish I knew sooner about balance. It can be a very isolating and lonely profession where it’s all too easy to get caught up in money and lose yourself in the process. It’s important to carve out time for yourself and your friends.
What’s your favourite thing to do with a client?
I like to cook. There’s something sensual about cooking and getting to know each other. I make a mean paella followed by handmade chocolate-covered strawberries.
What’s the quirkiest experience you’ve had with a client?
I do a lot of role play. I get called Daddy a lot. I’ve had a husband recording me having sex with his wife. There’re too many quirky things to list.
What do you do if your soldier doesn’t want to stand at attention?
It’s never failed me yet, but I’ve had some testing times. Obviously, I don’t want to disappoint. It’s all about headspace, if your mind isn’t in a good place, you’re going to stumble. The few times that’s happened, I pivot and change things up and approach from another direction.
Your body is your temple, what do you do to take care of it?
I’m always working out, eating well, cooking for myself. I used to be a semi-professional footballer and have recently started playing soccer again in Brighton. During lockdown, I have been sprinting up the stairs, usually 10 levels at least but haven’t been able to get past 15.
Need To Perform But Can’t Get It Up?
How common is erectile dysfunction? It’s estimated that up to 150 million men worldwide suffer from ED and this figure is likely to double by the year 2025.ED becomes more common as men age, with approximately 40% of men being affected at age 40 and nearly 70% of men being affected at age 70. Complaints of ED in younger men are on the rise, with one in four new ED patients now under 40. About one in ten men are completely unable to have erections.
How can it be treated?
There are a range of treatments for ED, including PDE5 inhibitors in tablet form, penile vacuum pumps, other medications, and erection restoring surgery. Mosh doctors generally prescribe PDE5 Inhibitors as “first line of therapy” for erectile dysfunction depending on your personal circumstances and preferences and these are effective for many men. If these treatments don’t work, Mosh doctors will be able to discuss other treatment options with you and recommend or refer you to other specialists to help with the second and third-line treatments, including erection restoration with surgery.
The Process At Mosh
It all starts when you chat to your doctor online. Your doctor needs to know about your health (like your medications, lifestyle issues, any prior surgery, and medical conditions) and how exactly ED affects you. They’ll then review everything, determine if you’re a candidate for telemedicine, and craft a personalised treatment plan just for you, guided by your background medical information.
Erectile dysfunction treatment programs start from $2.50 per dose and include an online and secure doctor consultation and discrete postage to your home. You can also choose to get your prescription filled at your local pharmacy. The order will be delivered discreetly to your door within 3-5 business days.
What makes Mosh different?
- No long-term contracts – We’re confident in our products and our service and we think you’ll be happy with the results and want us to continue to help. If you aren’t happy, stop any time. It’s that simple.
- Discreet, online consultations at times that suits you – our doctors and nurses can evaluate your situation and treatment program without meeting in-person. They also available from 8am-6pm every day of the year and after-hours are an option too, so you don’t have to disrupt your work day.
- Custom, comprehensive treatment plans – Every person is different so their treatment plans should be too. We have specialist doctors advising and supporting our Mosh doctors to ensure the best advice and treatment options are available to you.
- Continuing support at no additional cost – Your treatment plan includes nurse follow-ups, educational support material, and ongoing medical support, including recommendations/referrals to other specialists, at no extra cost.
- Privacy and discretion – Not only can your consultations be done in the privacy of your home, but your treatments will be delivered to your door every three months in discreet, unmarked packaging.
- Fast delivery and tracking – We offer guaranteed next-day delivery and online order tracking.
- Pause deliveries anytime – If you’re going away or want to take a break from your orders, you can pause them anytime. There is no need to cancel altogether.