Long-Term LGBTQIA+ Couples Reveal Bedroom Habits
When the sparks first fly, it’s all passion, all the time. But what happens between the sheets when the honeymoon phase fades? One curious Redditor, 14 years deep with his man, took to the ‘AskGayBros’ Reddit forum for answers.
“From three times a day to oral every few weeks – is this normal?” he asked, hoping for insight from other committed couples.
“Once a week keeps the love alive”
For many, once a week seemed to hit the sweet spot. One gent, nine years in, said, “1-2 times a week, daily on vacation.” Another five-year vet chimed in, “About once a week. We aren’t super sexual but still have fun when we do it! Your normal is your normal. As long as you’re happy, that’s fine!”
“30 years strong and still going at it”
But some couples are still burning up the sheets. “In a 30-year relationship and we have sex about 3 to 4 times a week. No lie,” one guy revealed. His secret weapon? “Cialis has been a major game changer in our relationship.”
Another decade-long couple keeps things spicy with “Sex every day, sometimes twice a day.”
“Communication is key”
When desire levels don’t match up, talking it out is crucial. “He has a higher sex drive than I do. It was an issue for us at one point,” a seven-year hubby confessed. “We communicated and worked things out.” Exploring new toys and fantasies together can also fan the flames.
Every couple is different
At the end of the day, there’s no magic number. As the top comment wisely noted, “Every couple is different, just talk to him about it if you’re unsatisfied. It doesn’t matter what’s normal for other couples.”
The original poster later added, “Thank YOU ALL for all responses. It really helped me a lot and now I know … that’s normal. Love to everyone.”
