“I Decided To Love Myself”: Netflix Actor Jermelle Simon Comes Out On National Coming Out Day 2024
“I thought it was a curse, but it turned out to be my biggest blessing,” says Jermelle Simon, star of Netflix’s The Upshaws, who shared his personal story on National Coming Out Day.
On 11 October, Simon, who plays Bernard “Bennie” Upshaw Jr. in the series, posted a moving video on Instagram. The timing was perfect. His character in The Upshaws had recently come out in the show’s latest season.
“To everyone who feels now is the time, to those who think maybe later, and to those who may never come out – I want to say Happy National Coming Out Day,” Simon said in his Instagram video.
Simon talked about his journey to self-acceptance. He spoke about embracing all parts of himself and choosing to love himself without conditions. The actor’s words hit home for many viewers of The Upshaws, a show about a Black working-class family in Indiana.
“I want to thank everyone who helped me feel seen, who helped me feel I belong,” Simon shared. His message ended with a clear, proud statement: “I am a Black, gay man.”
The response to Simon’s announcement has been overwhelmingly positive. His co-stars from The Upshaws showed their support through heartfelt comments and messages. Fans praised his bravery and thanked him for being real.
Simon’s story adds to the growing number of public figures who are living openly and honestly. His message speaks to anyone who has ever felt different or struggled to accept themselves.

