A Gay Quad Found Love In Thailand And Made A Documentary Called “Foursome”
Most relationships buckle under one long-distance partner. Dan, Tekky, Joel and Peter are doing it with three. The four men are a polyamorous quad, and their story goes public on 21 July 2026 when Foursome premieres on YouTube through the @just4bbs channel. Then comes the question everyone asks: how does this actually work?
How Four Became One
Their story started as two. Peter and Tekky had been together three years. Joel and Dan were one year in. The two couples met by chance in Thailand, and what could have stayed a holiday anecdote turned into something bigger. Rather than four men going their separate ways, they built one relationship between them.
That kind of setup raises obvious questions, and the four don’t dodge them. Asked who belongs to whom, their answer is simple: “All of us.”
Love is one thing. Logistics are another. The quad currently lives across two Asian cities, with Joel and Dan sharing one home and Peter and Tekky sharing another. They see each other in person roughly once a month.
Anyone who has tried long distance with a single partner can do the maths on how much harder it gets with three. The distance is real, and the film doesn’t pretend otherwise.
So What Is “Foursome” Actually About?
The documentary leans on emotional weight rather than shock value. “We were four different wounds learning that love could still be gentle,” the four say in the film. Another line hits harder: “The world kept waiting for us to fall apart, but we kept learning how to hold on better.”
There’s defiance in it too. “Maybe the reason they feared us so much was because we loved each other without shame, without limits, and without asking permission.”
At DNA, we’ve watched plenty of queer relationships get flattened into punchlines or clickbait. What makes this one worth a look is that the men behind it are telling their own version, on their own channel, in their own words.
Would a four-way relationship work for you? Probably not for most of us. That was never the point. Foursome premieres 21 July on YouTube, and the quad seems entirely unbothered by whether the internet approves.
